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It's Hard To Say Goodbye If You Won't Leave is the 10th episode of Season 3 of Frasier.


KATE AT THE GATE – Frasier consults Martin, Niles and Daphne about his romantic feelings for Kate when he fears she may not reciprocate and might even reject him. Taking their advice, he declares his love for Kate, only to have her announce that she is leaving the station to take a job in another city.


Kelsey Grammer as Frasier Crane
Jane Leeves as Daphne Moon
David Hyde Pierce as Niles Crane
Peri Gilpin as Roz Doyle
John Mahoney as Martin Crane

Special Guest Star

Mercedes Ruehl as Kate Costas[1]

Guest starring

Marnie Mosiman as Donna
Doug Tompos as Flight Agent


Jane Macfie as Gate Attendant
Vaughn Armstrong as Tony
Elvin Whitesides as Driver


  • Frasier's allergic to cats but in season 11, his problem is gone.
  • In this episode, we discover that KACL may be part of the NBC radio network when Frasier mis-judges his time to the newsbreak and he talks into the opening of the network news broadcast, and the announcer identifies herself as broadcasting the NBC news.

Notes and references

  1. Last appearance of Kate Costas